One of the biggest moments in your life, when you hold the newborn human and notice how tiny and small this little human is. You take him home to feed him until he grows up into an animal. Yeah, this is a baby. Now, I don't know how it feels to have a child, but I have a little brother, and I am 9 years older than him. I was so happy I was going to have a little brother, I was so excited that I was to take care of my own brother. My little brother, that he is going to learn from me and I would love him and protect him. Since the time he was born, my life...turned upside down. Now you probably didn't expect this but yes, it turned into a whole mess. The most known thing that babies do, is cry 24/7 nonstop. All-day, All night, cries in every way! All-time, never quite, and all he does is gripe! From few days till 1 year old who will be chewing the pacifier and that is like a boost to make him quite. Really helpful, but then he will grow teeth and will stop biting the pacifier. Chewing won't make him calm, he will be able to talk and he would call your name endlessly. He would break his toys and throw it all over the house. He would tell me a lot of things that he wants, a lot of needs. They would get you really exhausted.
Now I am not telling you that you shouldn't get a baby, babies are cute, and the most thing that will make you feel safe. Though they might have many flaws behind this perfect and angelic disguise, you will not see his flaws. You will think of him as perfect. My little brother, he annoys me in many ways, bothers me in many ways and I can give you hundred reasons why I should hate him but I still love him no matter what he did to me. I can see so many flaws but I still find him perfect, he is my little brother, the little poor boy who still have no knowledge and experience in life. That is why we have empathy towards babies, because the world they live in is unknown to them, and of course, because they are really cute!
My little brother learned how to walk on the age of 3 or 2, most probably 2. My big brother taught him. He would go to him every day and make him stand up, make him walk few steps and would tell him enough for today, if he wasn't able to walk, he would leave him alone. Of course, my brother wouldn't force him to walk, it is just a training. But my brother probably learned how to talk before he would learn to walk, or at least, understand what we say. You will have to teach your child a lot of things, like A LOT of things. And he will never get done of asking you to do things for him. Like making foods. But dude, when he grows up I will teach him to make food. What about Social Media, the E-Mail. Resturants. Payments. There is a lot of things that even when he becomes 8 years old or a teenager he still won't be able to do. So he is still going have a list full of the things he wants to be done and also nag about it to get it done. Imagine being short on money, you won't be able to explain to him that you are short on money and can't afford the thing that you want him to buy. All I do is telling him that our parents will buy it later but you have to wait, but my little brother still nags about it and keeps mentioning when you will buy it. He even cries and screams, but don't let that crush your dreams. You will love him no matter what! Babies are probably the most heart-warming thing that will ever exist in your life, probably even more than dogs.
His language is going to be crooked, you won't understand at first but then you will understand, he will establish a new language that only you and him/her understand. Cute right? So whenever the baby talks to someone who isn't close enough to understand what the baby is saying, all he is going to do is ask you what the baby is saying, once you hear it you will go "Ah! He wants the shark toy!" Pretty cool and cute to have your own language with him, right? He will totally rely on you more than anyone. My brother totally depends on my mother more than anyone else, he loves mum a lot, he would sit on her lap, play with her, talk with her, probably tell her a secret, or they still don't have the mind to keep secrets, do they?
That is all I got for this topic, I hope you enjoyed this post. If there is any topic, tips, opinions or compliments, feel free to share it down in the comment section. Have a nice day!
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